“With every mistake we must surely be learning!” – Beatles

Today, some stuff happened in my personal and professional life and I have learned a few things that I like to share;

1. Don’t Be Naive - Heart is a good thing; Having a good heart in your life and basing your actions on it is a very important factor however gotta use your brain before making important decisions. Don’t let people to tell you all the good things you need to hear just so they advance their cause. Be determined to not to use your heart making important decisions rather than your brain, some good research, based on people’s action and not their words pursue your decision. Don’t let people rush you. Those are the ones that usually drain you and make you tired and exhausted in short period of time. Man up and say no if you are getting pushed.

2. Respect and love yourself First - It is one of the most important things in life. You can’t respect, help, and love others without respecting, helping, and loving yourself first. Don’t be arrogant but don’t be too humble either specially not toward others. Be humble toward God but toward others, have confidence (without going overboard toward arrogance) so they know you love and respect yourself so they don’t take advantage of you and treat you the way you deserve to treated. Always associate with people in your level; educationally, spiritually, and emotionally for better mutual long term understanding.

3. Stick to your decision – If you have made a decision, then stick to and don’t contemplate it any more. If there are problems, try to work it out.  And don’t look back; looking back will only get you in trouble. Don’t let others influence you about a decision you already made because if you let people keep infusing you and pushing you around, then you live your life prisoner to their decision and not yours.

4. Learn from mistakes – We are humans and we make mistakes, sometimes small ones, and sometimes big ones. Sometimes our mistakes hurt us and others, and sometimes it hurt us. The biggest things is to learn from them so you don’t keep repeating them to avoid future pain.

5. Judge by result – If you made a decision that you weren’t sure if it was the right decision or not, simply look at its outcome. Sometimes things simply don’t work out and you make a bad decision but if people are showing bad reactions toward it, then you will have a better relief of the far that you made that decision and move on.

6. Keep Improving Yourself and Your Soul- Keep improving yourself and try to get better. No one is perfect and and everyone will die imperfect but how hard you try to improve yourself both mental and spiritually is the most important. Continue improving yourself in all aspect of life if you don’t and keep just moving on without improving, chances are that you will see the same old results!

I am concluding this post by beautiful quote from a famous poet;

“True riches are the riches of the soul” – Rumi


San Diego Not Feeling the Same

I have been living in San Diego, well staying at my friends places, and for some reason it is not the same any more.

I move back down here after I ended a relationship that I thought it was going too fast and I was not in control of, and I wanted to refresh and rethink my life, while working at my new job, and I thought San Diego would be like how it used to be but it really isn’t.

Perhaps it’s because I haven’t settled in my own apartment yet or perhaps its unstability or uncertainty about my job or my future but I really don’t like being in this position.

As for my SEO consulting business here in San Diego, I do have a couple of active clients I am working with, and I am hoping things turn around a bit and I find out about my job’s stability so I can settle down.